Beth and Paul Werking Must Pay for Son's Pornography: Judge
Skip to main content
Watch Our Live Network Now

Judge Orders Parents to Pay Nearly $45k for Tossing Son’s Post-Divorce Stash of ‘Sex Toys’ and ‘Smutty Magazines’

November 2015 issues of Playboy magazine are seen on the shelf of a bookstore in Bethesda, Maryland in an October 13, 2015 file photo.

November 2015 issues of Playboy magazine are seen on the shelf of a bookstore in Bethesda, Maryland in an October 13, 2015 file photo.

A federal judge in Michigan has ordered a mother and father to pay damages after disposing of their adult son’s vast pornography collection following the son’s divorce.

The judge, Paul L. Maloney, told defendants Beth Werking and Paul Werking to pay $30,441.54 in “principal” (the value of the collection) and an additional $14,519.82 in attorneys’ fees to their son David Werking. According to a court document dated Aug. 25, the sum total is $44,961.36.

According to court records, the son lived “rent free” at his parents’ home after living “on the street for a while.”  But he swiftly moved out of his parents’ house “at the request of local law enforcement” after what court records suggest was a violent spree involving “throwing furniture.”  He left his assortment of sexually explicit subject matter behind — and his parents disposed of it.  The cache, according to a court valuation, “consisted of 2,289 adult films” dating from the mid-1970s to the mid-2000s.

Judge Maloney explained the core dispute in an order dated last November (legal citations omitted):

In October 2016, after divorcing his wife, David Werking moved in with his parents, Paul and Beth Werking David brought personal property with him, including a large collection of pornographic material. But by August of 2017, tensions between David and his parents were running high. On August 23, 2017, David called the police after an “incident,” and the officers asked David to leave the home for at least three days. When he left, David left much of his property behind; he asked his parents to return the property to him multiple times over the following months. But on January 1, 2018, Paul informed David that any property that had not yet been returned to him had been destroyed, including the pornographic material.

According to court documents, the mother admitted destroying the property when contacted by the Ottawa County Sheriff’s Office.  The father also admitted destroying the property in an email to his son.  The email was reproduced in several earlier court documents.  Here’s part of it:

I find your whole attitude toward women to be very disturbing. Women are not objects for you to masturbate with, they are people created by God just as you were and should be treated with respect and dignity. I don’t think that you have been listening to me, so let me make this very clear. I do not possess your pornography. It is gone. It has been either destroyed or disposed of. I may well have missed a few items that are now in your possession but, at this point, if you don’t have it, it is gone. Ditto for your sex toys and smutty magazines.

The email continued by saying that the parents allowed their son to move back home after the son’s wife endured “ten years” of alleged “abuse.”  The wife apparently kicked the son to the curb, and he was living “on the street for a while” when the parents allowed him back in, the emails indicate.  The parents asked the son not to bring sexual material with him.  He did so anyway, according to the emails:

We were not surprised that you lied to us about having pornography because you lied to us every day about other things for the entire ten months that you lived with us. However, we were amazed at the magnitude of the lie. We counted twelve moving boxes full of pornography plus two boxes of “sex toys” as you call them. We began that day the process of destroying them and it took quite a while to do so.

[ . . . ]

Frankly, David, I did you a big favor by getting rid of all this stuff for you. If you are smart, you will get counselling [sic] and give up your porn addiction. However, if you really want to totally ruin what is left of your life, by all means go ahead and sue me.

The father indicated in the messages that he feared some of the material contained “child pornography.”  He also told his son that such material could result in “very serious jail time in excess of 20 years.”  But the son’s attorney indicated to the court that “[n]one of the Property was illegal in nature.”

An even earlier email from Paul Werking to David, his son, indicated as follows:  “[b]elieve it or not, one reason for why I destroyed your porn was for your own mental and emotional heath.”

The son snapped back via another email.

“There[‘]s plenty of porn on the internet if you want to watch that Dad,” the son wrote while providing several examples of online pornography sites.  “Believe me, I know you need it with mom around.”

The son said he also “needed it” with his ex-wife “around.”

“Meanwhile for me there are college girls out there waiting to be made into women,” the son also wrote.

He then demanded that his material be returned.

And a lawsuit followed.

The son demanded compensation and filed a lawsuit alleging but “one claim,” the judge noted: “statutory conversion under Michigan law.”  The case ended up in federal court on diversity jurisdiction.  The son had moved to Indiana, and when residents of different states sue one another, their cases can be heard in certain circumstances — generally when the controversy involves more than $75,000.

The parents argued that their son presented no valid claim and that the case should be summarily dismissed. The judge disagreed and viewed the case as a rather clear-cut matter involving a straightforward application of the Michigan law at the center of the dispute. The judge concluded:

In this case, there is no question that the destroyed property was David’s property. Defendants repeatedly admitted that they destroyed the property, and they do not dispute that they destroyed the property. Therefore, the Court finds that there is no genuine dispute of material fact on David’s statutory conversion claim. As such, summary judgment . . . appears appropriate.

The judge disagreed with the parents’ arguments that (1) they were their son’s landlord for a time; (2) that their son assumed the risk that the material would be jettisoned; (3) that the son abandoned the property; and (4) failure to mitigate. A paragraph discussing each of those alleged defenses dispatched the arguments one by one.

Earlier in the case, the son’s attorney, Miles L. Greengard of Grand Haven, Mich., wrote as follows with regard to the parents’ actions:

While it is likely that that Defendants believed that, in their conversion of the property, they were doing their son a favor – misguided love is not an affirmative defense. This Court should find accordingly, and order a damages hearing so that Plaintiff can be made whole.

And, elsewhere:

Despite Defendants Paul Werking’s self-professed noble intentions, because of these personal uses of the destroyed and converted Property, Defendants maintain liability under Michigan’s statutory conversion statute and the court’s [previous] holding[s].

Earlier court papers indicate that the parents were clearly “upset” by the collection of smut which was hoisted onto their property by their son.  But those altruistic concerns — which the son’s attorney duly noted — fell by the wayside in court.

After concluding that the son’s arguments prevailed as a matter of law, the judge ordered discovery to determine the precise value of the so-called smut.  What resulted was a formal valuation prepared by Dr. Victoria Hartmann — who describes herself as holding a “Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality (D.H.S.)” and a “Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology” — as well as being the person in charge of a sex museum in Las Vegas.  The valuation considered the following:

The question of the value of pornography continues to be hotly debated both in popular culture and in academia. Does pornography have value? If so, how do we determine such a thing? Does it have intrinsic value, or do we base the value of pornography simply from a financial perspective — considering the cost of production, the cost of distribution, and the cost to the customer purchasing a film.

The valuation arrived at a price of $30,441.54 plus or minus about $3,000 for the collection.  The core value is what the judge ordered the parents to pay.  The son originally sought $76,673.67 plus attorney fees.

An attorney for the parents did not immediately respond to a Law&Crime email questioning the couple’s possible next steps.

[illustration image via MANDEL NGAN/AFP via Getty Images]

Have a tip we should know? [email protected]

Filed Under:

Follow Law&Crime:

Aaron Keller holds a juris doctor degree from the University of New Hampshire School of Law and a broadcast journalism degree from Syracuse University.  He is a former anchor and executive producer for the Law&Crime Network and is now a Senior Editor for the Law&Crime website. DISCLAIMER:  This website is for general informational purposes only.  You should not rely on it for legal advice.  Reading this site or interacting with the author via this site does not create an attorney-client relationship.  This website is not a substitute for the advice of an attorney.  Speak to a competent lawyer in your jurisdiction for legal advice and representation relevant to your situation.